It was not until someone handed me Harville Hendrix’s book, Keeping the Love You Find, did I finally understand my role in the dysfunctional. Harville Hendrix Ph.D. and his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D. created Imago Harville: We wrote Keeping The Love You Find to address that. Keeping the Love You Find. By Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., ISBN 5 star must reading. [The following is what I highlighted during my read of this.
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This book does what it says. You are never satisfied.
The genders are trading places these days, maintaining the polarity, when what is needed is synthesis. Anyway, there is a ton of self reflection called for in this book, lots of exercises and the further I read the more clear picture I have, of myself! Until that is learned, you cannot relate to others; you can relate only to yourself. Being invisible, self-assertion, loss of parental partner love. To ask other readers questions about Keeping the Love You Findplease sign up.
The purpose of all this aggressive initiative is to experience the extent yo limits of lkve power in the social world. Partner reliability; support; standing. It is a great read for singles and couples alike but preferably in downtime, between relationships. He describes quite accurately what conflicts emerge yhe relationships and explains why.
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Moving Out into the World. This had greatly to do with attempting to complete the exercises as I went, but the concepts required some digestion at points. I doubt that I’ll continue any further. Difficult but important work: In Quest of Full Aliveness.
I think I have to find and definitely read this book. I find it a bit simplistic to state being “whole” revolves around whether your married or single. It is that chemical reaction that goes off in our bodies and is pulled towards the very person that will hurt us. The Journey to Consciousness. Many emotionally abused adults cannot, will not, admit that what happened to them was abusive…. Such love does not give birth to relationships.
No healing is possible until the truth is out in the open. However, the method of constraint differs according to the cultural philosophy.
Keeping the Love You Find by Harville Hendrix
Instead of being taken by surprise, and reacting by criticizing or retreating, you will not panic. Mar 15, Monica rated it ,ove was amazing. A Guide for Couples, which was about repairing damaged relationships. Whether he intended it or not, he stresses over and over again how you have to be married to be happy.
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Me Tarzan, You Jane. I can’t believe he would even start the book off with such utte I haven’t read past page Rebellious; suspicious of motives. I have to be good.
Good luck to anyone who tackles this and a trophy for anyone who actually succeeds. Voracious rage and terror.
But together we have a conscious relationship, and we face any issues as a team. This is accomplished through a process he developed called Imago Dialogue. I’d recommend Hendrix’s other books on imago theory, this one brings nothing new to the table, except telling singles that they will never be complete as a person without finding an imago partner.
You never see me; you want everything your way.
There are actually many, many favorable things about this book.